Social Skills Unscripted

Mel Robbins, one of my favorite people to follow and listen to, says, "You are one decision away from a completely different life." I'm a huge believer in the power of this concept. I also feel like it's very applicable when it comes to making friends.

Sometimes our kids struggle to make friends...

All about how and why I went from being a go-to social skills expert to not teaching social skills at all! Now I teach social groups focusing on teaching our kids the things that REALLY matter when it comes to making friends, and I’m on a mission to help others do the same!

Listen to the podcast ep...

This episode is all about what I call the STARFISH scale. STARFISH is an acronym, even though it didn’t start out that way.

In last week’s episode I told the Starfish story about the girl on the beach, and that’s how I came up with the name Starfish Social Club. I LOVE patterns and things becoming ...

(You can listen to this on our podcast HERE or watch it on YouTube HERE.)

Does your child struggle with time management? Do they get overwhelmed when things need to get done? Do they spend more time resisting or refusing than actually doing the thing? Do they have a reputation for procrastinatin...

(You can listen to this on our podcast HERE or watch it on YouTube HERE.)

What happens when we teach neurodivergent kids social rules?

They are likely to become the kids who either get ignored by other kids, or who have a reputation for being annoying. Why is that? How come when we try so ha...

(You can listen to this on our podcast HERE or watch on YouTube HERE.)

Does your kiddo refuse to apologize for things, even when there is evidence of the crime? Or do they apologize for everything?? Why is the concept of apologizing difficult for autistic and ADHD kids? I'm going to share some o...

(You can listen to this podcast episode HERE or watch it on YouTube HERE.)

August 16 is 'Tell a Joke Day!

At Starfish Social Club, our big thing is helping kids choose the reputation that they want for themselves, then we teach them the things that they can do to create that reputation AND the ...