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One of the biggest struggles for neurodivergent kids and teens is their ability to make and maintain friendships. But are traditional models that teach our kids to be more like other kids really the best way to help them make friends? Steph West, a reformed social skills teacher, is here to help you discover what your kid REALLY needs to know when it comes to making friends. Steph is the ADHD brain behind Starfish Social Club, which has helped hundreds of students become more socially competent, confident, and connected, and she's here to show you how to do the same for your kiddo!

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Social Skills is Canceled

The REAL reason your autistic or ADHD child struggles to make friends

The power of natural, social consequences for our autistic and ADHD...

*I'm not currently releasing new podcast/YouTube episodes, but you can access all 89 published episodes and see the top 3 fan favorites above!

Neurodivergent kids tend to fall into one of these personality types:

Circle

  • Reputation for being kind and friendly
  • Other kids like them, but they don't have genuine friends
  • thinks all kids they know are their friends
  • doesn't know how to start or maintain a conversation
  • doesn't self-advocate
  • gives passive feedback, if any
  • doesn't recognize when peers are instigating or taking advantage of them
  • spends free time with adults instead of peers

Triangle

  • Reputation for being annoying/too much
  • recognizes that they don't have friends, but doesn't know why
  • corrects others, even when it doesn't matter
  • talks about things that others don't know/understand
  • tells the same jokes repeatedly
  • does not apologize
  • gives aggressive feedback
  • has big reactions when given feedback
  • often gets overly attached to one peer

Square

  • Reputation for being 'shy'
  • Overly concerned about their reputation
  • avoids social situations
  • doesn't correct others, even when it's appropriate/necessary
  • struggles to maintain a conversation
  • humor is more advanced than peers
  • over-apologizes
  • doesn't give feedback to others
  • doesn't answer questions, even when directly asked
  • spends free time alone
Which one describes your child? Take the quiz to learn more!

Ever wonder what’s actually behind your child or teen’s friendship challenges? It's not really about social skills!

Join our free workshop to understand why your child says and does certain things, how  this impacts their ability to make & maintain friendships, and how we help our students level up on the Starfish Scale.

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What if this was the year you started your own program like ours??

I would love to teach you how to start and run your own business so you can support kids in your local community!

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Want to help your child or student learn how to play group games?

This FREE 6-page guide outlines how to support your child or student during game time to help them grow in their game-playing abilities, no matter how old they are or what level they are currently at!

It includes strategies for 5 different games (Connect Four, UNO, Sorry, Perfection, and Blokus).

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What if this was the year you started your own version of Starfish Social Club?

I would love to teach you how to start and run your own social club so you can support kids in your local community! 

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Does your kiddo struggle to play games? Is it more work than fun? 

This mini course walks you through exactly what and how I teach our Starfish students when it comes to game time!

You will receive an email each day for 7 days with the link to the video for that day! 

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Get Started Today with our Self-Paced Program!

We took the most essential and foundational eight weeks of our year-long program and made it into an online course that you and your child can work through together!

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Join the waitlist for Empowered Advocate! This program teaches parents and teachers how to best support their child based on their unique social profile! Registration opens in late October.

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I support kids, teens, and adults with social skills development and reinforcement.

I also support families with conflict at home, parenting strategies, and school support. 

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